The majority of the servers is still standard during prime time with a few heavy or full usually. Standard does not mean empty, it ranges from a few hundred till around 2000. Fact is no one here can exactly tell how many people play, if you want a good indication of how many people have active subs, you should wait until Bioware/EA releases numbers.
And besides that there are mostly trolls on this forum, who just speak doom and gloom about this game.