Frankenseuss Posted June 16, 2013 Share Posted June 16, 2013 As you may or may not know, I am always thinking, looking for ways for us to improve PvP in both the actual gameplay mechanics and in the general fun as a whole. Here's one of those instances where I bring to you an idea of the community making the game more enjoyable for everyone, as we aren't developers and can only hope and pray for the developers to hear our pleas. With that being said, I'll move on to the point of this thread. It always breaks my heart to see people being rude to other players. One of the ones that hurts the most is the notorious "L2P". Yes, there are some players who will not be as good as you, and there are some who are better than you. But it may be possible that the player you say this to actually is new to the game, and is more than willing to learn how to play. L2P doesn't help them, it only insults them. Next time, instead of just saying "L2P noob" or "L2P baddie," instead offer helpful tips on how they can improve their gameplay. Remember that the only true mistakes are the ones you repeat twice. Another one that really gets to me is the name calling. It doesn't matter what faction we play for, or what skill level we have, because in the big picture, behind each character is a human being, who deserves the same kind of treatment as you do: kindness, uplifting, constructive criticism, and an overall good attitude. When you throw insults at people, it starts to turn everyone against each other, which puts a bad reputation on the community and yourself. It will always pay off to treat people with kindness, because those who are mean will be known for it, and many people will refuse to play with them. Finally, the last one I will mention here is the sore loser. I remember when I was just a little girl, and my dad (RIP <3) put four cards face down in front of me. He said that I win if I find the Ace. So I flipped one over and it was an Ace, and I was thrilled because I won. He told me to do it again, so I did. Another Ace. Oh I was feeling on top of the world, I won again. He praised me, told me good job, I was really good at this game. He told me to do it again, so I did. Another Ace. My happiness finally turned into boredom. He asked me to do it again, and I said no, I had grown bored. He flipped them all over and they were all Aces. The point was that in a game where you win every single time, you will grow bored really fast. Losing gives a lot of positive outcomes, such as an opportunity to learn from mistakes and improve yourself, diversity to the game being that you know it's possible to lose, it makes competing worth while. Be prepared to lose, and when it happens, instead of insulting your team mates, try congratulating them on giving it their best effort, because in the end, remember that every one of us is on the same team. A little bit of kindness goes a very long way. Please, help me make this community the best one in the mmo world. I love you all, and I enjoy playing with you. <3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chimex Posted June 16, 2013 Share Posted June 16, 2013 I fully support this lovely message. Also, that card game is a great way to teach about winning and loosing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rhyn Posted June 16, 2013 Share Posted June 16, 2013 Very nice post. It would be nice if we could have conversations that were positive. PvP communities do suffer from bad reps based on negativity and would be great to see that change. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orionan Posted June 16, 2013 Share Posted June 16, 2013 Excellent post, Love the story about the card game too, thankyou for posting it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alundo Posted June 16, 2013 Share Posted June 16, 2013 (edited) All I saw was Cartman staring eerily at the screen saying, "We have to learn to live...togeather." Edited June 16, 2013 by Alundo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frankenseuss Posted June 16, 2013 Author Share Posted June 16, 2013 Thank you for all of your replies, I hope this can spread to as many people as possible. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Megachronic Posted June 16, 2013 Share Posted June 16, 2013 Another one that really gets to me is the name calling. It doesn't matter what faction we play for, or what skill level we have, because in the big picture, behind each character is a human being, who deserves the same kind of treatment as you do: kindness, uplifting, constructive criticism, and an overall good attitude. When you throw insults at people, it starts to turn everyone against each other, which puts a bad reputation on the community and yourself. It will always pay off to treat people with kindness, because those who are mean will be known for it, and many people will refuse to play with them. A little bit of kindness goes a very long way. Please, help me make this community the best one in the mmo world. I love you all, and I enjoy playing with you. <3 But Huttbal encourages name calling! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frankenseuss Posted June 16, 2013 Author Share Posted June 16, 2013 But Huttbal encourages name calling! By the characters not by the players. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doomsdaycomes Posted June 16, 2013 Share Posted June 16, 2013 Always a good idea (atleast in game). Generally (I can only speak for myself) I do try to give some advice or at least instruction. When they're not followed I even bite my tongue most of the time. There does come a time where you can do no more, and the frustration is just too much as you see someone do the same thing wrong over and over again. Make no mistakes, no matter how informative someone is, there will be someone who simply will not learn. If they are willing to learn, I am willing to teach. If they are willing to teach, I'm willing to learn. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I think you'll find it's often a different story on the forums. Generally complaint threads are made by people completely unwilling to learn. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sauerkraut Posted June 17, 2013 Share Posted June 17, 2013 PvP is not for everybody. It's been like this forever, actually SWTOR PvP is the wimpiest PvP I've ever seen. It's not even real PvP, it's more like a PG-13, care bear party, but for softies there are other things out there less scary, like stamp collecting, origami, domino or chess is an awesome game. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kovaos Posted June 17, 2013 Share Posted June 17, 2013 PvP is not for everybody. It's been like this forever, actually SWTOR PvP is the wimpiest PvP I've ever seen. It's not even real PvP, it's more like a PG-13, care bear party, but for softies there are other things out there less scary, like stamp collecting, origami, domino or chess is an awesome game. So where's the real pvp at? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zunayson Posted June 17, 2013 Share Posted June 17, 2013 So where's the real pvp at? KOTOR 1 and 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kovaos Posted June 17, 2013 Share Posted June 17, 2013 KOTOR 1 and 2 lolwut? I thought were going to answer with doac or gw. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frankenseuss Posted June 17, 2013 Author Share Posted June 17, 2013 lolwut? I thought were going to answer with doac or gw. Honestly Dark Age of Camelot had the best PvP I've ever had the priveledge of being a part of. Guild Wars 2 got my hopes up but the servers couldn't really handle WvWvW too well, which was what made DAoC so awesome. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kovaos Posted June 17, 2013 Share Posted June 17, 2013 (edited) Honestly Dark Age of Camelot had the best PvP I've ever had the priveledge of being a part of. Guild Wars 2 got my hopes up but the servers couldn't really handle WvWvW too well, which was what made DAoC so awesome. Exactly. I thought since he was belittling swtor he was going to name a good pvp game. Edited June 17, 2013 by Kovaos Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CBRGhostRider Posted June 17, 2013 Share Posted June 17, 2013 (edited) A little bit of kindness goes a very long way. Please, help me make this community the best one in the mmo world. I love you all, and I enjoy playing with you. <3 Good try OP, and while I commend your initiative... it's really not going to help. This sub-forum (moreso than many others) is replete with people that only feel good (and superior) when talking down to someone. Now either they are just immature kids, or insecure adults who lack the self-confidence that comes from real achievements in life. My advice to whoever takes this too seriously... grow a thicker skin, and remember that it is just a silly game. Try to have fun, and ignore the idi0ts who talk down. Edited June 17, 2013 by CBRGhostRider Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sauerkraut Posted June 17, 2013 Share Posted June 17, 2013 So where's the real pvp at? Seriously every MMO I know has better PvP. I don't like the stun, heal, interrupt based PvP and obviously I am not the only one. There is a reason why SWTOR ended up as the biggest failure in the MMO history. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vladnar Posted June 17, 2013 Share Posted June 17, 2013 Extremely true and a quality effort, may well just use that card story myself in the future. Thankyou Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuzzingFridge Posted June 17, 2013 Share Posted June 17, 2013 Another thing I really hate is /emoting. Why do people feel the need to /laugh when they kill one another? Just concentrate on the Warzone, you stupid f*cks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sharee Posted June 17, 2013 Share Posted June 17, 2013 Thumbs up! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kovaos Posted June 17, 2013 Share Posted June 17, 2013 Seriously every MMO I know has better PvP. I don't like the stun, heal, interrupt based PvP and obviously I am not the only one. There is a reason why SWTOR ended up as the biggest failure in the MMO history. I know it's not the ideal style, but I can't find anything better at the moment. To say it's for care bears to support your contempt for the game isn't quite fair. End game PvP is very fast paced, strategic, and there are some serious ballers out there. The games' biggest failure was/is content. Content doesn't determine how good you are though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AlrikFassbauer Posted June 17, 2013 Share Posted June 17, 2013 (edited) PvP is not for everybody. It's been like this forever, actually SWTOR PvP is the wimpiest PvP I've ever seen. It's not even real PvP, it's more like a PG-13, care bear party, but for softies there are other things out there less scary, like stamp collecting, origami, domino or chess is an awesome game. To me, Chess actually IS an awesome game ! You won't win against masters of chess. Not with a fast-clicking mouse. And, by the way, what did you want to say with your post about helping people ? Or do you rather believe that helping others is useless ? And HOW exactly would you like to help Newbies ? Edited June 17, 2013 by AlrikFassbauer Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Capt_Beers Posted June 17, 2013 Share Posted June 17, 2013 Did anyone else think of the speech that the Governor gives when you land on Taris? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuzzingFridge Posted June 17, 2013 Share Posted June 17, 2013 (edited) did anyone else think of the speech that the governor gives when you land on taris? Yes. Every...single...time... Edited June 17, 2013 by BuzzingFridge Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sanchito Posted June 17, 2013 Share Posted June 17, 2013 nice post op, signed 100% :-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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