So you've been playing for 86 hrs, exploring and taking your time and from your first post, you mention the PVP feels good. Anyone would have thought that even after all the negatives you mentioned at the end, you're still enjoying the game in some form or other.
I'm not sure why you feel the story of the class you're playing isn't fun though. I think the choice of light side/dark side dialogue does add some consequence and rewards. I remember not helping this woman on Alderaan against the Jedi and got hell for it. And I pressed F9 to reload but Oh damn, this is an MMO, my bad.
You mention Jedi Bob giving you a quest and recognizing him from an earlier quest. Well, in the Sith Inquisitor quest line, there's something like that going on.
Well... sure this game has its bugs and gripes but it doesn't stop the basic functionality of it, which is to play and enjoy it. Some people expect everything to be available at launch but I think that's too high of an expectation.
I've learnt not to expect too much after I followed CnC:Tiberian Sun for 4 years until its launch to play it and found how abysmal it was.