Why does everyone keep forgetting Torian? He's the best romance, in my opinion. Too bad he's broken now.
My favorites are Torian, Iresso, and Corso. I'm finally playing through with a female Agent and Vector is sweet, but yeah, the bug thing is going to take some mental gymnastics to get past.
It's always been this way in BioWare games. I think it's because when BioWare first started out, there weren't many female gamers. Personally, I've been giving this same feedback to them since I met that Anomen guy in Baldur's Gate.