No you have not. Ulitma, Wow, DAoC, Rift, Anarchy on line, Asheron's call and on down the line, all had far more issues then this at launch. Wow was a disaster with extreme queues, world crashes, and instability. My guild has experience one lag spike since we have gotten in on the first day. Smooth as silk.
You are whining over nothing, and now you are lying.