Forum stuff is what I do to unwind before hitting the sack.
I'm personally played a large number of MMOs myself. Not as many as some but a good amount.
EQ, EQ2, SWG, CoX, Champions Online, WoW, Rift, Terra, Uru, a few more I've probably forgotten.
I don't ignore the stories. It's just about the only thing that doesn't make me want to gouge my own eyes out of sheer familiarity. When I first logged in to the game back when it was sparkly new I started the first story quest and when I finally got to really play the game the wave of deja-vu hit me like a ton of bricks. People call it tried and true. I call it old and tired. These are just opinions, of course. It comes with getting old.
Don't let me dissuade you from loving the game, but for me it's not bad, but nothing special either. I think I would love it more if the story choices had more impact and if the story branched in any meaningful way.