Haha.
I think the OP is bummed that tanks are second class citizens for so much of the content in this game, due to heals and dps being crazy over-tuned. A friend of mine and I were put into a groupfinder hard mode, and we started shooting. The tank said, "I guess you guys don't want a tank, huh?" We were responded, "we were forced to have one to meet the group finder requirements, so want is a bit strong a term. You're welcome to tag along if you like though."
He quit and we finished the instance with SCORPIO.
The daily heroics are even worse, as they're best completed with four DPS, rather than three DPS and a healer. Only the operations actually require tank gear and spec to be completed, which makes it kind of rough for anyone who want to play a tank as their primary character.
I'm sure we'll run into the OP again once ESO launches though, so it's only a temporary breakup. Hope he has a good vacation.