Has anyone else been noticing lately while using Group Finder that tanks just don't bother using Guard anymore? I find this to be exceedingly aggravating. As an Operative healer, I try and keep my probe on the other 3 members of the group more or less exclusively. With there being no guard on me, you can imagine my frustration when I get a group and I am watching the tank and two DPS tunnel vision a gold mob while 1-2 silver mobs and a few regular mobs take a quick interest in me.
I guess in general, I feel like I'm noticing a decline on knowledge of mechanics. I've tried to bring this up on more than one occasion to groups trying to educate them about the extra difficulty I have to go through with healing myself on top of 3 other people rather than just 1 or sometime 2 people. I try and remain calm as much as possible and always give people the benefit of the doubt. We all start somewhere, right? Most of the time, I'm met with instant hostility, about how I should worry about how to play my own class, since I was "at 1/4 life the whole fight like a nub."
That said, the first character I made just a little over a year ago was an assassin tank. I have the concept down pretty well after having tanked every HM Flashpoint, world boss, EV and KP SM/HM/NM and EC SM/HM before moving on to try out DPS and finally healer. I just find it extremely discouraging when people lack the patience to try and make the whole ordeal more enjoyable for everyone involved. I've recently joined up with a guild that is raid oriented and I can only hope that as a result my time with the Group Finder has come to an end.
I just wish there was some way to try and offer some constructive advice without being called a "troll" and then more or less ignored for the remainder of the run. My ignore list has more than tripled since I've started playing a healer. I really feel for you guys in ways that I never thought possible.