Merge the servers or add something of a LFG tool to help out. I know this has been talked about hours on end, but this is starting to suck.
When you group, ask the other players what they would prefer as in LFG tool terms. See what the actual community thinks and NOT these forums.
I joined a great guild to fix this, now players arent logging in.
I added TONS of friends on my friends list. Now they arent logging in.
Last night I sat in the fleet and spammed for 2 hours for ONLY HM BT. (I'm a healer).
I love Star Wars! Heck, I even have a Fett tat on my arm. But, this may make me leave.