I wouldn't call it WoW hatred, I'd call it common sense.
Maybe the OP wasn't there when WoW was played using mostly the standard UI. Back in the day we only had the crudest of mods, such as raid bars (WoW didn't really have one displaying health bars for 40 people in the raid, but SW:ToR does) and on screen display of raid leader messages (we didn't have TS back then either, now it's ubiquitous).
Let me tell you that we were quite capable of raiding and my guild was #1 on our server.
When boss mods appeared, suddenly those guilds that had a hard time killing any raid boss could clear whole instances. Skill?
When the dungeon finder was added, it seemed like a cool idea at first. We all needed those dailies done and hey, there were so many badges to grind.
Over time, anyone with a sane mind realised that the server community was going to hell, because no one needed anyone from their own server anymore, insta dungeon - there you go.
Now players like the OP come here onto this forum and claim the very same things that ruined WoW for others, calling them 'nice things'. If you're so eager to have these 'nice things', then why don't you just go straight back to WoW?