Wrong the 1gb 460 is much better.
http://www.hwcompare.com/9691/geforce-gtx-460-1gb-vs-geforce-gtx-550-ti/
I would get the 6850 but i'm a AMD fan.
http://www.hwcompare.com/8241/geforce-gtx-460-1gb-vs-radeon-hd-6850/
and the PSU is way overkill for that system.
About the same price much better performance.
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16814161393
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16817371031
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16819103995
http://www.hwcompare.com/8240/geforce-gtx-460-1gb-vs-radeon-hd-6870/
The PSU I listed will handle anouther 6870 in Xfire later if you need it in the future with an adapter for the GPU power, use this to check Watts
http://extreme.outervision.com/psucalculatorlite.jsp