wow thanks for the replies everbody! No, I did not just kill stuff for this girl. I did kill some but really wanted to get her to understand making useful rotations, being aware of cooldowns, being careful not to break CC...she did nt even know about CC, the difference btw AoE attacks and single target attacks....so yes, I did shoot some stuff, but only to demonstrate. I was a bit underleved when I left my starter planet as I had little help and groups were nasty for me as a noob.. Thus I did almost no heroics etc. So I am acutely aware of the danger of a person being under leveled. In fact I am hoping to make sure she is leveld up more now, she has finished her class on starter and she is eager to go to next planet but I urged her to wait and get some more levels. Even now I like to have an assist on missions, to me the game is much more fun with a friend and much more dull solo. It is a frustrating thing for me, as my few friends are usually on at different times and they are much higher level than I am. I usually find myself alone, and hate to see others struggle alone....especially in what I think is meant to be a social game. I love the cooperative aspect of doing missions with a friend.