Yesterday I ran into an elite area in Nar Shaddaa to get a datacron and came across a guy fighting an elite mob.
I stopped to make sure he'd make it since it did seem a bit close but when I was sure he'd live I ran on.
Then I get a whisper sarcastically stating how nice it was of me to help instead of just staring.
I simply replied that I help if people need it, not otherwise.
He goes "so you have a policy of helping by not helping, how nice"
I sigh and just tell him I only help if people really need it.
Then he goes off on how I'm still arguing with him?!?!
I'm like "excuse me? who's arguing? and am simply told I'm still arguing.
At that time I told him what I thought of his behaviour, welcomed him to my ignore list and told him that if he didn't want a reply he shouldn't be sending pissed off whispers in the first place.
Later in the evening I jumped in and picked a patrolling strong mob off a guy running away with little or no health after his first fight - not thinking twice about it because if people really are in trouble, that's what I do. No thanks but that doesn't really matter.
At the same time I've been irritated when a sage/sorc jumps into my pack of alreday tagged mobs and blows them all over the place. Not enough to be rude, just sighing to myself.
What I'm trying to say (when done venting a bit ) - you're damned if you do, damned if you don't.
Can't please everyone, can only try and be as nice and helpful as you can.