I really haven't seen too many guys swoon over my female character to be honest. I think out of the ten years I have been playing MMO's.. I have only ran into maybe 10 guys who tried to treat me special. If you think about it 10 guys in 10 years REALLY isn't a lot. I mean I am sure it happens to people more often as that but in my personal experience it really isn't that bad.
Perhaps I am lucky for not meeting a lot of creepers.