You might have your reasons against it, ok. But still it's easy, make a character in the said realm and go bm him how much you want to. Really a Dungeon Finder would benefit more than it would hurt. Seriously, you get to have ninjas, idiots and what not even with a normal group only that it would take much more to replace him, not to mention the building of a group. It takes so long sometimes that you're forced to go in 3 and have a companion. You seem to know only half of the story here, who cares if people insult each other? Are you really so weak to trolls?