You're certainly right that I'm bad at grouping, but can't you see the vicious circle this creates? Many people on the fleet demand that you "know the fights"; so how did they learn them? These people want others to be patient with them, but are not themselves patient. They "do not remember their beginner's heart". But there's also the logistics issue. I've only completed the Ravagers once. The last time I tried, here's what happened:
It took 70 mins. of queuing through GF whilst on the fleet, with the Ops leader pleading for more people. After an hour and ten mins., we finally had a balanced group. We set off, killed the first boss, and then two members declared that waiting for an hour to start the op had burned up all their time, so they quit. We all trooped back to the fleet and it took 40 mins. to find two replacements, by which time two more people had quit citing being out of time. At which point, the team leader said there was no point in continuing and disbanded the group. Two hours of waiting and trying down the drain. This happens all the time. Soloing is the only sure way to go.
And I'm not interested in other games. I want to be a Jedi.