(ok, one more thing to say ) - she really does deserve this. That's why I got all nerdragy.
She's a sweetheart, makes stims for 2 of our ops groups, helps people get datacrons and do dailies, runs our guild bank so I don't have to, and has parked toons on ledges for days to get people their +10 stat 'cron. In return, I badger her into warzones and drag her out on world PvP. In WoW she had almost every pet out there. She likes puzzles and figuring out stuff that drives me insane, and I don't appreciate that nearly enough. She's the PvE queen of a PvP guild and it's not always a fun or easy job. So I got defensive. I'm sorry.