Good read on the problems. Very well written.
I initially came to SWTOR for pve with a side of pvp to spice it up. Eventually, I ended up pvping the majority of the time. Although SWTOR has its pvp problems, I think i'm going to stick with them and support their development team in hopefully addressing the issues and creating a rich experience as Rated WZs and other content unfolds (1.2 and beyond).
Definitely understand the OP's concerns, much luck in your endeavors man.