that is not the point. if he used offensive language, he should be reported too.
language doesn't generally offend me, but it does occasionally. if it does, i'll report the person. I've used offensive language before as well and have been reported for it, as I should have been. Doesn't mean people should be able to say whatever they want without consequence.
and telling the OP/offended to 'grow up', 'grow a pair' (Edgarallanpwn) isn't the answer either. people who think that way are just ignorant and should read up on US/World history. Then maybe they'd understand why some language is offensive to some people.