So I thought i'd chime in on my position on a same server/Cross Server LFD tool.
Well im pretty much straddling the middle ground of this debate. When i was playing those "other" games that do have cross server LFD tools, i actually loved it, and here's why its all about spending my time wisely. I could queue up for a dungeon, go do some quests, my queue pops i get a group. Yes sometimes you would get *******/ninja's.
This happened regardless though pre-LFD, and when you had to build a group manually those *******/ninjas actually stayed in your group LONGER because it was such a pain in the butt to replace that person ESSPECIALLY if that person was a Tank/Healer....if they were DPS well...DPS are a dime a dozen in every mmo i've ever played.
So right now im sounding pretty PRO-LFD...BUT...
In SW:Tor i play a tank (as ive learned from previous mmo's that it's never a wise decision to make a DPS toon)
Now in this game as im a Tank and im pretty decent I can find a group no problem usually it takes about 5 to 10 minutes for me to build a group, as I like to lead. I have so far found groups a little bit more willing to help people out in this game, and if you get a bad/new player I do everything in my power as the Leader to Help/Train people in the Do's/Don'ts of grouping. A few times there have been obviously new players to MMO's that needed on everything, BUT only because they did not really understand the system of Need/Greed. After explaining it a few times to them and allowing them time to really understand the system they fell into line...so far. I find people are a little more willing to wipe also as everyone knows it could be a really long time to replace that pesky healer...lol
BUT and this is a big but, some people like some friends of mine play DPS or simply just don't have the time to go actively looking for a group like me...so why should they never get to experiance the content that they are paying for? I mean they're money is just as green as mine? Maybe they are new to MMO's and just don't understand how to be a leader and build a group like i do? Does this mean they should not get to do FP's?
I think not. This is a flaw in the current LFG tool...also the current LFG tool is kinda rubbish, even if you know how it works and know that it is galactic wide, and you only have to type LFG into the tool's search area to pull up a list of available people...but that's another topic entirely.
Some people will say get a Guild! be Social...well I gotta tell ya I have not found a Guild it has not affected my being able to form groups one bit. Guild's are not the end all and be all of grouping. In fact this leads to a story about A-hole's in Guilds. Recently I was in a heroic group i was the only member of the group that wasnt in the guild. I was having a bad day and I accidently pulled a group on accident ... oops... i though no biggy we can deal with it i figured....NOPE, WRONG no comment was made i was just ejected from the group within SECONDS...so much for the current LFG tool promoting social play right?
(Yet another reason to take the Leader position esspecially if your like me and play for fun and not to be a L33t snob)
Douche Bag's are EVERYWHERE in MMO's and the sooner the "mature" people realize this the better everybody will be. This kind of thing happen's with or without a LFD tool. First 3 people ive ever put on my /ignore list as of yet, but i am sure many will follow. So guilds CAN be GOOD! for grouping...but also conversly they CAN be BAD D-Bag's just as bad as any you will find in a random group finder...as unless I know the person in Real Life, isnt building a group of people you don't know just as Random?..I think it is.
So what I would say is give people what they are paying for. Let them have a same server option (check box) for those that want to retain they're (Blacklist of baddies) those people can "Punish" the Douche Bag's to they're hearts content (also kinda ironic but to my line of thought they are actually Douche Bag's themselves and are perpetuating the cycle of hate...the dark side is strong with these people) AND also have a option for Cross Server for those that don't have the time or the inclination to wait on a Same-Sever list.
This should please everyone, and also nothing is stopping people from spamming /1 or even using the current LFG tool (if they're Old School and like the current system) Never remove options just add them.
my 2 cents, i am aware that this is just my opinion to which i am entitled to, and that not everyone will agree with me, but that's perfectly fine, not everyone has to.