Okay I was able to get past the Heta loading screen on my crappy laptop. Here's what I did: after logging in to the launcher (steam version btw) I clicked play and quickly unplugged my ethernet cable and was able to quickly get through the Heta loading screen, then I entered sleep mode with my laptop for a few seconds while plugging in my cable and after coming out of the sleep mode the character count on the server browser was displaying -1 on all servers. Then I was able to login to Star Forge where I have 1 character but not to Darth Malgus where I have 17 characters.
My gpu: Intel HD 630 128mb (integrated)