OP I feel sorry for you. A part of you seems to deviate towards more sandbox gametype, which this game will never have.
I agree with you on a lot of points but tbh this game is just a cash grab now. What you envision is something EAware will never do. Also prepare to set up a flame shield because the defenders will take this thread by storm and attack and harass you and accuse you of being other forum members who posted their critical points.