Nice post OP--I agree with almost everything; just a few things to point out:
1. It is expected if you queue a roll in group finder, that you are actually that role. I despise sorc/sage, mando/mercs, and ops/scoundrels that queue heal and are actually dps.
2. You should have some gear--I realize not everyone will be top or even mid tier but don't walk in with greens. Blues even--are manageable. Unless you're on a bolstered fp, not only are you yourself screwed, but your group is also screwed. This is the equivalent of queuing in lvl 19 green relics in a 55 wz. He died 58 times in a match that lasted 3 minutes. (It does note saying he was in all greens ranging from lvl 19-48).
3. Most people who claim to be l33t are not. There are a few who can boast and hold their own but its rare. And as someone posted earlier, those who are l33t tend to be the ones helping others because they need other people that can contend (PvP) or run the harder OP's (PvE). OF course, there's an ******e here and there but there's always someone better and this wonderful ignore button. '
4. Gear. I have done every 55 HM in full PvP gear. Don't tell me I'm geared wrong--not only will you die in a PvP with your PvE gear, but most people in full PvP have a brain and can do FP's. (And those who can't rarely queue for FP's).
5. Starhugger said some stuff on language barrier. Try to make your comments basic--this isn't an academic course so you can use laymen terms. On that note, it's also not a cellphone. plz dont tpe lk ths. K?
Thanks ;D