Irrelevant. What he says, goes. Do I like it? Most of the time, no. I'd rather Han shot first. But that's the way it is, and ************ about it won't help anyone.
I'll try and explain the whole balance thing to you despite you clearly refusing to listen to anyone who does.
See the Force as a human body and the Dark Side as cancer. By itself, the human body (or the Force) is balanced. Everything functions like it should. Then along comes "cancer". Cancer gets rid of the body's previous balance and slowly destroys it. It has, in a way, become part of the body. But the body's better off without it.
Do you see what I'm getting at here?