A simple question to ask yourself: "If gear progression was removed, would I still play?"
If the answer is yes, then you are playing the game because you are having FUN, and truly enjoy the strategy, action, and/or gameplay.
If the answer is no, then you are playing the game because you are following BASIC BEHAVIORAL PSYCHOLOGY.
Its no secret that the world of mmo development is hugely concerned with behavioral psychology and manipulation. If you hate doing the actual grind, but do it anyway because you want/need the gear, then what are you really playing for? At what point does the actual PLAYING become FUN?
How many people have driven themselves to grind out full top tier sets only to find themselves suddenly bored and unmotivated once they have it?
Just open your eyes and ask yourself why your really playing. Whether or not this game's PvP is any good should become clear.