Can't tell if I've been bugged or not. I have been sitting on the defector quest, avoiding making a mistake. I've read it's during or after this quest...haven't gone to the mining rock yet, BUT before doing all that, when I'm at the space station, she wants to talk on the ship...I go to the ship and nothing. I don't think she has ever spoke to me privately, is this how it is supposed to be prior to defector? Also I have picked all the options that would give me points for her.