the crux of this matter is this; is this thread accompanied by a bug report ticket via the ingame system?
if it is not, then this is just a "omg, why do the bad men hit me, mama?" thread.
popping people out of stealth is a wellknown and much used pvp tactic, but being targetable by pets and not players does seem to indicate some kind of bug.
imo the moment the pet targetted you you should have been open to all kinds of grief from the emperical gentleman.
and as said before; if you cant take the heat get the hell out of the nuclear reactor.
also ravenholdt was ****.