To be honest, players are causing themselves anxiety. Nobody has to sit around waiting to get in - checking their email, etc. People choose to come here and whine by their own volition. Even if you had a schedule, people would be sitting around saying "SPEED UP THE SCHEDULE, UNFAIR, BLAH BLAH BLAH."
Bioware literally could not win in offering people a bonus. The only way they could've won is if they just had a launch, with no early access.