First 6 months of World of Warcraft were nothing like this. Maybe the first two weeks before the server populations adjusted.
I played WoW from pre-beta (alpha sandbox) through now. I love seeing these posers making stuff up about other games that they have played for a few years which somehow classifies them as vanilla users.
Listen, these queue times will fix themselves over the next two weeks. If you can't stand them, then create a new character on a light population server. If you don't want to leave your guild, take them with you or go play with your dog while you wait in queue.