Wrong! you don't just go to some random server, that is YOUR server. You decides what happens to it. Don't push your bad attempts on to people, because this time you acctually have the power to do something about it. Other then WOW were you can.... what? Oh right, nothing. That guy is part of your server. If he is a jerk then his punishment comes swift. But now you find tanks you respect and healers that appreciate. That is a community. Not some random 4 people in a party.

It holds players responsible but it also builds relationships. I played WOW for nearly 6 years, I don't remember a single person I grouped up with. Why bother? Yet today I saw a agent and I realized he/she had healed my group recently. That is the big difference. One system makes an MMO into a call of duty style game. The other builds communities, something SWTOR needs desperately. Is it a greater inconvenience to look for a group in trade? Absolutely. But if the tradeoff is WOW where I sit in my capital city all day and no one gives a %*^& about their fellow man, you can go back to WOW and farm your "epics." I joined SWTOR for the community, not so you can have faster gear.

Depends on what happens this next month. If the game performance improves I will stay. It is a great game, but things like heroics bugging out, pvp ques messing up, getting stuck on quests. These are core issues, stuff that should have never made it past beta. It's unacceptable, but Bioware is worth it.

I am finding some of the same problems happening to me. Personally I think it is Mako's gear scaling because he 3 second cast heal only heals for about 3% of my HP and her dot only gives about 0.5%. I try to keep her gear updated and mine, but it is becoming quite the credit sink. Perhaps she was balanced with tanking in mind, that is my only logical conclusion for that. Because I was having trouble killing mobs on my class quest alone.