Are you saying that having a safe spot on a contested world makes people want to stop playing?
Are you upset that there are places you can't gank lower level players?
I cannot recall a game in the last 10-15 years where I have not heard variations of the "Should still be beta" complaint My suggestion is to give up video gaming all together, it's the only way to resolve the issue.
Let's see, the Ewok's will be a primitive stone age tribal race in about 2700 years, how would you justify them being an advanced star faring race before they discovered tools?
A single server only has a limited amount of resources. There is a limit to the number of instances it can support.
Instancing is not a magic wand that makes anything possible.
I have and will continue to sub to LotRO plus I have an active sub to DCUO because no matter how many times I tell Sony otherwise they refuse to believe me when I tell them I want to cancel it ...