First Off BW you put me on my server i keep quing up to 50 mins for, 2nd I am up to 29 and friends and family play on the server. I work 6 days a week I dont have tons of time to play, get off work and wait 40-50 min for a que.
Easy fix to this, if you have toons on that server already there shouldn't be a wait, new accounts can have a que time that would discourage new accounts coming to the server, but also it hurts as our friends and family want to play the same server as us.