You are just wasting your time and ours here, canceling is just very easy, go to the place you preorder and cancel, that´s it.
Secondly, Bioware has never promised to everybody who pre-order the 5 days, they stated hundreds of times that early access is all about the date you redeemed your damm code, so you have no point here either,
Third; you have posted with an account of nov 2011? ha ha Are you kidding yourself?
Lastly, they even give us 2 more days, the problem here is your stupidity for believe redeeming a code at last very minute will grant you access the first...go away