Yeah this is real fun...I'm trying to get the yellow one on Nar Shaddaa and I get terrible motion sickness from jumping up and down the dozen or whatever pipes and boxes to reach it. I'm literally at a point now where I have to decide whether trying to build my class relic is more important to me than the contents of my stomach. I'm pretty sure I bought a MMORPG not Bioware Mario

The point of the system is not to magically make more tanks or healers, it's to enable people to easily form groups while reducing all the annoying stuff that comes from having to try to make/find one yourself. Filling out a group should not be difficult, running the content is there for difficulty level. If it's on the same server, then it actually helps the community.

Aside from running with guildmates (which by the way does absolutely nothing to help communities) spamming chat channels (at least at that time there was a dedicated world LFG channel) lie about their specs whisper random people in hopes they're a healer or tank, aggravating them with begging, and surprise, ruining the community. So all in all, engaging in obnoxious behavior that in real life would equate to public intoxication, disorderly conduct, indecent exposure, take your pick of an analogy. If you guys have "friends" or "guildies" that are willing to play when you want to play, fantastic, go play with them. If they ditch you for a dungeon finder, that means you weren't a desirable friend/guildy to begin with. Let the rest of us have a choice.

You can't spell community without fleet channel 1 filled with mindless LFG messages! It's becoming more and more difficult to take anything the "no feature X!" crowd blurt out seriously. The quest pickup system is also quite terrible, both boarding party and the foundry are a pain to get quests for the first time around, involving you picking up this, then dropping that. Considering both hm flashpoints are bugged, it's probably a blessing in disguise.. The features that that "other" mmo put in were put there to make the lives of players less stressful after many years of feedback. Shunning those features is fine, denying them to others because you had bad anecdotal experiences is not. It's fine to lobby against cross server LFG, but at least moderate yourselves and settle for a in-server LFG system that allows for proper queuing and possibly automatic quest giving+shuttle to the area.