I actually lol'd when I read this, not making light of the situation but from my perspective (male) I play this game or any mmo because its a game and its fun, to me, don't know how it is to some, but for me real life and video games are two different concepts and are kept separate...its like going to the movies, there are women there but I don't go to the movies if I'm single to pick up a chick, I go to see a movie, same with video games...
Maybe I just don't get how some people think.