So you are saying I am with her. I haven't done several of the romance scenes though, does that mean I can not be with Jaesa then? Also, I never slept with her friend. I said that we should all stay together. I just hope I didn't mess it up because I don't want to do another character just to romance Jaesa and I don't want dark side Jaesa. I don't know. Does it matter if I romance Vette, I just want to make sure I understand what you are saying. It sounds like it more depends on the choices I make in the end game, is that right? The farthest romance scene with Vette I have done is when we both said we liked each other but she got shy. I never kissed her, which is the next cut scene. However she did kiss me after I talked to her in the ship after I convinced her sister to not go after the hutts for revenge saying that I saved her life so I don't know. At what point in the romance arc, are you considered together? I am curious. Is there like a notification that I get saying are you sure you want to confirm this person as your partner or anything like that? Just let me know I guess. I do appreciate the help.