I don't completely know how to help, but I got a girlfriend probably because she was attracted to me because i am the leader of the guild The Infinite Sith Order of the Shadowlands, which currently has around 600 members. It is only 5 months old, so my advice : make a guild. Give it your best shot. And the ladies might be attracted to you just for being such a good guild leader!
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