But still im stuck now between choosing between my 2 favourite characters and both would kill me if i make the wrong choice.

Then why do you have to chose between her and Lana, Kaliyo goes both ways so there would not be a problem with having both Lana and Kaliyo as a romance.

I did not even know of this till a buddy of mine told me about it and now i looked into my mailbox and did not get it.