Awesome, thanks!!

Thank you for the quick reply. I hope you're right, that would be a great sigh of relief. I guess all I can do is try it.

While trying to romance Nadia Grell, I didn't pick the marriage option because it seemed like changing the subject at the time. I regretted not doing so and hit Escape as fast as I could to reset the conversation, but it was too late and the quest got completed. Now I understand that means I won't get any mail from her, and I'm not sure if it counts as a romance even though I picked all of the previous flirt options and told her that I love her? I contacted support to see if they could reverse just that one quest, but they weren't able to. I know she returns on Ossus, and can be romanced by female Consulars, but can she be romanced by a male Consular who didn't pick the marriage option? Because I really don't want to recreate my entire character to get back to the same point and pick another option, but I also don't want to go through all of the new content only to find out I'm not able to romance her. I wasn't able to find an answer anywhere online, please someone help? EDIT: After finally reaching and completing Ossus, I can confirm that I was able to romance Nadia in the exact same way as if I had picked the marriage option. However it was a little strange, as she and my character quoted a promise that you only previously get to hear if you picked the marriage option, which I didn't. I also eventually got the three mails that you are meant to get after completing a romance. But I didn't get a mail from her for starting KOTFE, nor was I able to mention the romance to Valkorion. So it was a little bit of a mixed bag.