I still think it is a interesting subject because it's so debatable, because there's is not enough to say its one way or the other, but what it is pretty much coming down to I think (From reading all the replies) a combination of both.

That makes sense, I can see the good reasoning behind that.

Yes my reasoning was no because love can be used as a powerful tool to destroy someone with.

That is what it seems, but I think it is more of a traditional rule.

I recently ran into a argument with people on general chat about if Sith are technically allowed to have lovers or love. My reasoning was no because in my opinion Love = Attachment = Weakness = Exploitation or Loss of Power. I know the Jedi order has rules against love or lovers. I am not claiming that Sith being in love doesn't happen because obviously there are some cases. But rather I would like to have a discussion on whether they are technically allows to as Sith. Opinions, Comments, etc. are apericated.