No, your situation isn't unique. I bet about half the players playing this game have characters on several servers. Your situation is the reason they made the policy in the first place.
Lord Calyphos situation on the other hand is unique. We're the only server with an rp-pvp designation (unique=one of a kind, you can look it up if you don't belive me), hence we were supposed to get a uniqe sollution to solve our problem. It took them 2 weeks and the result was that they screwed over a large part of the server in favour for a majority. The minority have every right to complain and say that their sollution wasn't unique and that it didn't solve the problem simply because it didn't.
I'll give you an example of what has happened with another product to make this more clear for you.
You buy a car, this car is offered with manual or automatic gearbox and in pink or blue. You buy a blue car with auto gears. Later on a problem with the car is realized and the company making the car withdraws them and offer you the same car as you had before, but new in exchange. Unfortionatly they've stopped making the blue cars with auto gear, so you naturally belive that you will be given the chiose between a blue car with manual gears or a pink car with auto. They promise you that they will come up with a sollution to this problem. After thinking about this for a very long time and without giving you any information they one day come and deliver a pink car with auto gears to your door and with the explanation that they belive the gearbox to be more important to the driving experience then the color. They are ofcourse correct, but that means you're stuck driving around in a pink car.
Would you feel like you had been treated fairly?