Well, the way "Grey Jedi" are explained in the lore, is not that they where "neytral" neither dark, nor light, but that they, like Qui Gon would not strictly adhere to Councills decisions - they remain fully lightsiders, but sometimes choose their own path, instead of following directives. So, if you want to be a Grey Jedi, touch luck - you still gotta be light. If you are no longer a lightsider, you become a Fallen Jedi....

Never worked perfectly here - it said to me stright at the start when I tried to get digital edition from Origin that they are not supporting my country and I can not buy it - so I ended up getting a physical coppy which worked just fine. It is annoying, of course that at our age of digital downloads etc. you can not actually buy the game that way, but there are ways to work around the problem so... either take it or leave it.

Well, as far as I know most decent russian guilds that play on non-russian servers in games that do have russian servers, adopt rule to speak server's official language in open chat (usually english). In LOTRO there have been vastly more problems with spanish or italian speaking people talking in their native tongue in general chat, than with russians. Still it is perfectly understandiable that people do not want to see texts in unknown tongue blocking off trade or /lff chats.