The main thing I would say is make sure your marking the targets and your dps is following the kill order. On my assassin tank I move in and use discharge to hit all the mobs then I focus on the first kill target. The only person that will pull threat off the other targets you only hit with your AOE will be the healer unless the dps are also AOEing. If something moves towards the healer then hit your taunt. If a dps pulls agro on something other than the kill target I personnaly would ask them to not aoe the first time then let them die any subsequent times.