DaFoxx -
It was the quest "fun". He asked what I did for fun, and last time I chose something other than "What did you have in mind" which is, it seems, the flirty answer.
But, yeah, I actually build a second SI in order to level up and do the quest to get my romance.
LOL I'm addicted.
If they reset your quests, please please please let me know because I could go back to my other SI.