For me, gear is largely irrelevant. Gear comes in time, its secondary to the joy of the mechanism in which you like to play the game, and that is suppressed for a lot of folks.
I know, I can see it already. "Wow did not have LFG at launch, and had PVP insta-match before LFG"
I was there, I remember. The difference back then was a virgin mmo player-base,
myself included. Running a UBRS raid was a real privilege to me in the early days.
Fast-Forward to now and its no longer a "privilege" but a right. Thank blizzard for that one, nor you or I can change that.
Like it or not blizzard set the standard for what mmo's are. This game largely follows that model. As such the current climate of PVE gamer's expect "PVE on demand" as "PVP on demand" is currently offered in swtor.
Please, I would like to hear your opinions.
EDIT FOR CLARIFICATION
Do you think "Flashpoint LFG" is now mandatory in today's mmo climate?