Hello there Chris. When I first saw this thread before the wipe, I didn't even know what it was about so I passed over it. Now that I know what it is, I kind of like the idea to be honest.
Well, before I go and introduce myself I'd just like to share a lesson and some of my experiences that I learned myself and over time while playing my first MMO.
Not everyone is all that nice (some people can be down right mentally insane), but there's quite a few out there who are very nice such as the ones found in this thread. But in-game once you find your particular crowd via a guild or friends met on the fly it gets a whole lot better. A lot of people will claim that what makes a good MMO is the gameplay, but I'll give them some credit on that, they're half-right. But what makes it lasting is the people you meet and give you that sense of belonging.
Now it wont last forever though, even some of the best guilds I belonged to had their fallings apart. Don't get discouraged if they do, there's always other guilds to join. It might take a few before you find one to settle in with that feels right for you and when you do you'll make plenty of more friends. Also don't get too carried away though and become attached to people. I know I have before, just don't. It only ended in pain and tears for me in the past and even for the person of the other party involved. I've learned to keep my distance emotionally. Just treat them like you would your classmates/colleagues and it'll be okay.
Also if you have questions about you chosen character class, feel free to ask others about it. The more you know the easier and better your gaming experience will become, for both you and others as well. Other than that, back to business shall we.
My name is CaffeineMonkey and judging by the name I do enjoy coffee and tea, a lot! I'm an addict and feel no shame for it either. I also enjoy walking, listening to 80s and dance music, even some talk radio and sketching out characters when I'm not playing online games.