This game is a work in progress of course but the developers are to be applauded for actually putting out a title free from the watered-down easy-mode that other titles revolve around. There will always be idiots like you who demand more choice (therefore making your decisions in-game meaningless), there will always be those who want it all now, who want the crutches of damage-meters, dungeon finders, gearscore counters, etc.
Yes, it's just a game, but by removing all elements of independent thought and choices with consequences, you remove any point in playing at all. My advice to you is to go and play something else where you can spend 10 bucks a month getting everything handed to you and where your actions have no real consequences - there's plenty of them about.