I admit I am just frustrated hearing my friends playing in vent and me just having to listen...sucks

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yeah this is all fine and well, the problem they did state that you would be getting the invite in the order in which you pre-ordered the game, and I have a friend that just pre-ordered the game about 18 hrs ago and is already playing before me and I pre ordered about 3 months ago.

I know of someone who just pre-ordered 17 hrs ago and is already in...and thats fine except that Bioware has said it was in order of when you bought the game, and I bought it months before he did.