A cursory stroll through the S&L forums told me that the subject of romance options in the game is one oft visited here. When will same-sex romance and [flirt] options be implemented (something I myself would be incredibly pleased to see), how do I romance character A, can I romance character A and character B, I avoided the romances entirely who's with me, and so on.
That aside, I'm expressing my curiosity on various aspects of the romance options, and how some players reacted to them.
-Did you bother with the romance options at all? Who, and why?
-Did you avoid the romance options? Why?
-Did you wish you could romance somebody (any NPC or companion) but were unable?
Etc., etc.
As for myself: Thus far I've only played two characters for any lengthy span of time. My now 50 Sith Marauder, and my not-quite-40 Jedi Shadow. Both men, both light side (though my Shadow does tend to follow darker options when presented with Sith, ironically enough, because of how threatened he feels by them).
I'll be blunt: my Marauder is gay. There is no question in my mind. He is 100% interested in men. I never intended to make a big deal out of the fact, so the lack of a [flirt] option with the various male NPCs of the worlds didn't bother me much. I also never intended to have him romance any of his companions. My boyfriend and I created our Sith--his a Dark Side Sorcerer--with the intent of pairing the characters themselves together. We're RPers at heart. We RP, as RPers tend to do. We wove our own story within the constraints of the game and we had a wonderful time doing so.
If I was going to romance any companion, it'd likely be Quinn. I even teased at the notion by giving him a few courting gifts--which, amusingly enough, he rather liked. And if my Marauder was remotely interested in women? I'm not sure. He'd view a relationship with Jaesa as incredibly unprofessional, and he views Vette as his little sister.
When I created my Shadow I had no clear goal in mind. I just wanted to see what the Republic side of things was like, and I have a weakness for double-bladed lightsabers. I pegged my character as--not so much asexual, as willingly abstinent, as most Jedi seem to be. I still haven't given any clear thought as to his sexuality. Pansexual, I suppose?
Regardless, I didn't plan to romance any companions with my Shadow for the obvious reason of: he is a Jedi, he doesn't want to feel that level of attachment to anyone.
But--and I'll get a lot of flak for this--if I had the option, I'd romance Qyzen Fess. Yes. The trandoshan.
It makes sense to me. He's the first companion I got, he seems quite protective of his "Herald", and occasionally seems to lift him to a point of hero worship (which my Shadow tried rather insistently to downplay, to no avail--now he just kind of rolls with it). Since the romance option isn't there--and wouldn't be there regardless of my Shadow's gender--I just shrug my shoulders and pretend. A lot like with Quinn, depending on how you treat your companion, the dialogue seems to lend itself well to interpretation. You can see a budding relationship, or not. I don't need set-in-stone canon validation to derive satisfaction from a potential story.
TL;DR
Share you romance stories, wants, or lack thereof.