< Old Raid leader >
I never see the point of people being against DPS meters anything that helps players be at their best is a good thing in my opinion. If players are pulling subpar dps for a boss encounter that needs good dps to beat an enrage timer, ofcourse i will replace him, will i kick him from the guild, no, will i get one of my class leaders to talk to him after the raid and give him some advice, yes.
The sad thing is the kid linking the dps meter ruins it for us all.
It never takes very long to figure out people that focus mainly on dps and leave others to do the objectives such as add killing, interrupting etc. Those people will be asked to fix that problem or find another guild.